I'm not one to judge another woman on her appearance. How we choose to present ourselves to the rest of the world is our choice because it's our body. However, I can't help but be concerned for the young, impressionable girls out there who see women who modify themselves to the extent that society expects... Continue Reading →

Red Flag

One of my most damaging relationships was also my most healthy. Psychologically I think we both left more messed up than we started, but as far as growth and love goes I believe we both learned a lot about ourselves. It ended terribly but I wouldn’t change a thing. However, when it happened I felt like... Continue Reading →

Shake It Off Mr. Lefsetz

I recently came across a blog post by one of my favorite bloggers, Bob Lefsetz, regarding Taylor Swift’s new single “Shake It Off.”  Besides some of the personal tangents he goes on, I generally value his opinion and advice on the current state of the music industry.  He has a long history with the music business... Continue Reading →

Don’t Call Me Crazy

I might have a new guy in my life.  I say might mainly because I’m jaded but also I’m not sure in what capacity he’d be around.  I think he’s not sure either because the other night, as New Guy was leaving, he mentioned going on a date sometime for fun. In my mind, I... Continue Reading →

The R Word

Rape.  Hilarious, amirite?  Many a comedian use it as a punch line.  My own sister used it to comically describe her first gynecology appointment.  Having never had sex yet at age eighteen, one can understand that it’s an uncomfortable situation.  However, using the descriptor “rape” is quite an inappropriate exaggeration for one’s first gyno visit.... Continue Reading →

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